Category: Dating and Relationships
Hello everyone
my name is Tina i am 23 yrs old and i have a guide dog named lazlo. and well i just receently moved back in with my parnres to Washington state i was living in south carolain wiht my was then boyfrined who i thought i was in love with and such and well it besically got me in troble being wiht him i was even put in jail along as he was to for domestiv violence but here is the crappy part for when he and his mom were ganign up on me and also he is partly blind like myself. he is going on 25 and a big mommys boy and he and his mom were ganigng up on me and he grabbed me and i threw a cell phone at him that was in my hand cause i ddint know what he was going to do since prior he has left burises on me by grabbibg me so hard and telling me i was the cause of him putting bruises on me. and so basically in court they charged him with nothing and gave me themistameanr for 5 years on my record, and so he sweet talked me into moving back inw ith him 3 weeks later since wer were seprated bofre court and then a week after i had my eye removed my right eye he then left me in walmart and had his mother come get him then called my dad and said he wasnt going to come ohome til i was on a plane back to washingto state and so here i am. and now he is being a real jerl when it coems ot shipping my computer,cctv and stuff back he said he doens care what happend to me or my stuff after it leaves his apartment. and my question is how can i be sure next time i date somone that i dont clame up and be scared that i could get hurt or bruised again. i was physically and mentally abused. and wonder how would i knwo if i found the right person after being put through what i just wiht through wiht my recent X? sorry if this was confusing i tried to explain it the best way i could if anyone wants to talk to me let me know i have MSN, AIM and yahoo mesenger
thank
Tina and guide dog lazlo
Hi Tina my Jamaican friend Bea was abused by her husband! My first boyfriend is controling! My friend told me to end it! Bea and you are the lucky ones you still have your lives! I'm ending it with my bf as I answer your borad post! He may ask you to be his grilfriend again! I'm telling my bf no! I don't know what to tell you on the second part! I plan to never get a boyfriend again! God bless you!
hey thanks for the reply yeah my ex bf called me tongiht to tell me about my stuff being shipped and then told me he had already put his name out on the internent and is already looking and talking to girls. he thinks i am mental and that there i something wrong with me and that he thinks i beat him with nothing goes when i would like it too. and blames me for everything that he did everyoeny right and i did it all weong. and that he doenst care what happnes to me anymore and is ready to get my Sh*t out of his apartment as he calls it. so yeah its nuts . and then him telling me he is already looking and got his naem out ther eis like ive already been through hell and back with having my right eye and stuff moived and then getting this crapp from him.. so would you like to talk some time? do you hav MSN AIM or yahoo if so let me know.. thanks and thanks for the reply..
tina
Please learn basic english if your going to try and communicate on a primarily english site, love society.
Hello Tina,
Its been a long time since we chatted on MSN. I am sorry to hear what has happened since we talked last.
Time is one thing that will help you regain confidence and trust again.
oh my gosh. hope. dont' start this crap that your first relationship was horrible. boo hoo stuff. you were just on other boards saying how he's so great and you'll never leav him. as i have said to you before grow up! you guys split up. leave it at that. instead of trying to be miss drama queen. you werent' even together long enough to boo hoo about the way he treated you. and for that matter, you never even met the guy. lol. from the other boards i get his evilness was calling you when you were sleeping. um. yeah, as i said grow up before you try another relationship.
This post was written to Hope not the person that started this board as I know nothing about you or the relationship you were in. good luck though!
hi tina,
hope things will get better as time goes on,and there will be others out there who will be caring,and honest,and won't use yu as a punching bag.
i've got msn,and aim so add me to it so we can chat.
have a nice day
tonyaka frosted flakes
Yes Tony, just what she needs another creepy guy to talk to Wow most of this site is special.
Hi Tina don't go back to him! Don't let him put through that stuff again! It's just going to repete all over again! Yes I have Yahoo, aim, Msn, and Skype! Jared I understood her! Shae I never said he was grate! No I'm not startting drama! Hope P.S. Tina most people on this site are cruel!
hey , no iwont be going back to him specially for some one who cals me and yells at me and calls me a A-whole for returing a voicemial bout shipping my stuff back. and how he is saying he has already put his name out on the internet looking for another girlfirned thinking he is the victum here and he is not. he just wants some one to take place of his mommy and be into ham radio and computers and do what ever he wants when he wants it. and i know icna do better. trust me i dont need to go back to jail again due to him. i mean for some one who dumped me and left me in walmart a week and a day after i just had my right eye removed and was still on strong medication. anyways i am sorry if i have bored some of you.
thanks for alll the nice responces
no one should be treated the way he treated youand i wouldn't do that to a nice sweet person like you are tina,an dwould have taken care of you after you had yur eye removed.
hope to see yu on here or hit me up on msn if you like to chat.
take,and have a good one.
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wow, if she is lucky lutherk will hit on her too!
Be verry careful whom you communicate with on this sight!!!!!
There are a number of wonderful people ,but there are some questionable ones as wel!!